What is the main reason for fighting with the people closest to you? Not why you feel it’s okay to abuse them, like what I said last night in my blog, but what is the main reason for constantly fighting like cats and dogs with your closest friend, family member, etc?
Is it because we see the best in them, and then become disappointed when they don’t express the best side of them in public? Is is because we are jealous of their lifestyle and wish to bring them down? Is it because we “need drama” in our lives and then take it out on those closest to us? Is it because we have what we feel are unresolved issues or feelings with/for each other? What? Why?
I thought we had resolved all of our issues with each other and hadn’t fought in the longest time until recently. Really, as of late we seem to be fighting almost every time I turn around. And I don’t want to end our amazing friendship and last month together on a horrible note. So why is it so incredibly hard for us to get along right now? What are we doing wrong? This is kind of starting to worry me…
Is it because we see the best in them, and then become disappointed when they don’t express the best side of them in public? Is is because we are jealous of their lifestyle and wish to bring them down? Is it because we “need drama” in our lives and then take it out on those closest to us? Is it because we have what we feel are unresolved issues or feelings with/for each other? What? Why?
I thought we had resolved all of our issues with each other and hadn’t fought in the longest time until recently. Really, as of late we seem to be fighting almost every time I turn around. And I don’t want to end our amazing friendship and last month together on a horrible note. So why is it so incredibly hard for us to get along right now? What are we doing wrong? This is kind of starting to worry me…
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